Counseling for First Responders
Teletherapy designed for the unique needs and stresses of emergency services, public safety personnel, and other helping professionals.
Constant exposure to death, tragedy, & cruelty
burdens the spirit and dysregulates the brain
but you don’t have to face this battle alone
Dedicated Support for Those Who Serve
Optimizing brain health and overall wellness for law enforcement, firefighters, paramedics, and others who see the worst of humanity and suffering.
First responders, public safety personnel, and other helping professionals face unique challenges that can impact their mental health. The nature of your work—exposure to trauma, high-stress environments, and the responsibility to care for others—requires tailored care and understanding. At Seeking Solace NYC, we offer specialized treatment that addresses your distinct needs so you can thrive personally and professionally.
Counseling First Responders: FAQ
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There’s nothing natural about seeing blood, gore, violence, death, destruction, and malevolence every day. Yet, some of us don’t just adapt but thrive in such circumstances. High-pressure situations bring adrenaline, mental clarity, and a renewed sense of purpose. Alert and completely tuned in, in these moments we’re able to handle anything life throws at us. We become powerful, important, and needed.
But all of this comes at a cost. What comes up must come down. And while the highs are glorified, the lows are often ignored, shamed, and even exploited.
Some of the common “lows” that come with first responder work are:
We see ourselves as failures when expectations aren’t met, even if we know the expectations aren’t reasonable.
Total exhaustion that takes over physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
Feeling haunted by certain events, images, or experiences that we can’t shake off.
Strained relationships with family, friends, and partners.
Withdrawing from loved ones and feeling disconnected from society.
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All of our therapists have roots in the forensic world. We’ve worked closely with state and federal law enforcement and have served some of the most challenging populations, including providing sex offense-specific treatment for contact, non-contact, and internet offenders. We understand that once you see something, you can’t unsee it. And so we welcome and appreciate dark humor as an evidence-based coping strategy for reducing stress and processing disturbing realities.
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Common problems that get addressed in first responder counseling are:
Stress, including acute stress, general stress, cumulative stress, and post-traumatic stress.
Vicarious trauma and secondary trauma from being exposed to disturbing materials.
Depression, chronic low mood, hopelessness, irritability.
Anxiety, restlessness, being on edge, and unable to “turn off.”
Difficulty focusing or thinking clearly.
Low energy, having a hard time completing simple tasks.
Isolation and loneliness, feeling disconnected and unable to relate to other people.
Relationship challenges.
Sleep problems, including trouble falling asleep, staying asleep, and nightmares.
Sexual problems, including excessive porn use.
Work/life balance
Anger management
Chronic feelings of inadequacy
Moral injury
Lost sense of identity, meaning, and purpose
Why Specialized Care Matters
You are often the first to respond to emergencies, manage crises, and witness difficult events. These responsibilities can leave a lasting impact, leading to:
Vicarious Trauma: Emotional residue from exposure to others’ trauma.
Burnout: Chronic emotional and physical exhaustion from relentless demands.
Stress Injuries: Psychological effects from cumulative stress.
Compassion Fatigue: Feeling emotionally drained and disconnected from your work or loved ones.
Substance Use or Behavioral Escapes: Coping through compulsive behaviors, such as excessive alcohol or pornography use.
Our Approach
We believe in personalized care that recognizes the intensity of your role and respects the importance of your service.
Trauma-Informed Care. Our treatment integrates trauma-informed practices, recognizing how chronic exposure to traumatic events affects mental health.
Neuroscience-Informed Interventions. We offer practical strategies grounded in neuroscience to address stress and trauma, including approaches aligned with the latest research in trauma therapy.
Flexible, Practical Solutions. Understanding the unpredictability of your schedule, we provide virtual sessions and collaborative treatment plans that fit your life.
Nonjudgmental, Confidential Space. We know the cultural barriers that may make it difficult to seek help. You can expect a confidential and supportive environment to explore your thoughts, emotions, and challenges.
Specialized Treatment Areas
Our services are tailored to help you work through:
Vicarious Trauma: Develop strategies to manage the psychological impact of exposure to distressing materials.
Burnout and Chronic Stress: Build resilience and effective stress management strategies.
Emotional Regulation: Learn practical skills to manage emotional highs and lows.
Compulsive Behaviors and Addiction: Address sex addiction, substance use, and other escapism coping strategies.
Relationship Challenges: Reconnect with yourself and others, strengthen personal relationships affected by the demands of the job.
Our Clinicians
Our therapists have extensive experience working with first responders and helping professionals. With a background in forensic mental health and trauma-informed care, we understand the realities of your job and offer the expertise to address them.
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Let’s Connect
We appreciate your questions and feedback. If you have any interest in first responder mental health and wellness, we’d love to hear from you!